Today is your day 

Believe in yourself, I know sometimes you can wake up and feel like everything seems to be going wrong … try and turn them negative thoughts into positive ones. Try and focus on yourself and what you want to achieve. 

I know sometimes it’s easier said than done, I’m sure we have all been there. Up coming to the 2nd anniversary of my brother it’s hard to sometimes stay positive as inside you are slowly dying, but you know we are still here and we need to make the most of that one life we live. Keep your mind occupied into something, even if it’s exercise, cooking or playing with your little ones the more your mind is occupied the little you will feel the upset you are feeling, remember your not alone there are millions out there who feel this way – and one main thing to remember is that it’s okay to talk, we need to knock down this stigma to mental health.

Have a lovely weekend, where ever you may be 🦋
Hold your head high, smile and tell yourself today is your day. 


Coming up to two years… 

On may the 2nd it will be two years since I lost my brother, possibly the hardest two years of my life …. people used to say it will get easier. I never believed them and still don’t although I’ve learnt to live with it now and build a life a different way. It will never be easy losing some one, so don’t ever listen to those who think they know as every one will go through grief differently. 

Set your mind to something, it helps turn negative events into something positive … this time last year I was practicing for my 10k run 🏃 this was hard for me as I’m. It a runner but if you set your mind to something you can achieve it never let any one tell you different. 

On may 30th me and a friend raised over £1000 to go to mind, to help those who suffer with mental health problems. This year I am starting to share my journey with you. Hope you have a nice day and remember smile 🦋


Your not alone ….

Welcome to my blog Just something magical, this name was founded from my brother who I sadly lost in 2015. Taking his initials to turn a sad event into something that we can remember him by. I hope you will enjoy this journey with me… I am new to this …. and I cant wait to share my memories and journey with you.